I love Christmas and put a lot of effort into presents each year and this year is no different but following relocation, new house and birth of twins we are seriously skint! So I started planning shopping in July- buying presents in sales, selling loads and car boots etc and finished shopping feeling pretty proud of my efforts considering the budget!
Then last week SIL announces they have bought an amazing present for MIL and we all need to chip in. Amazing present being £400 tablet and everyone needs to contribute £100 per family (dh has 3 siblings). He of course said we have already shopped for her can we not join in, but apparently we are being 'churlish' and it's too late. She goes on to say we all need to contribute £50 each for FIL present.
My husband is snowed under at work and so just paid to keep the peace- but this has meant we are pretty much eating beans until Christmas and can't afford to take the kids on the day out we planned this coming weekend. I haven't complained any more to dh as he has enough on his plate- but they did this last year and thinking it was a one off we just went ahead as I was still working and it wasn't a big deal. The other siblings only have one kid between them, all have high powered London jobs etc and can afford it. I am highly put out also as now his mum has an amazing present and mine gets a nice, but let's face it not a tablet, jumper I got in the sale for £15. They are all spending Christmas at our house as always (more expense!) and it's going to look really crap on Christmas morning while she opens a tablet and half my family have scarves!!!
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Christmasnut18 · 07/12/2015 18:45
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