Every single adult that I know who was seemingly spoilt as a child and has carried on acting like a spoilt brat into adulthood has a completely charmed life with everything going their way. It makes me feel that sometimes it isn't worth being a decent, kind, considerate adult because the spoilt type of person has the world revolving round them!
One person in particular is a mum that I have come across via my DCs preschool and school. She is in her late forties and was spoilt as a child and is still spoilt now as her mum does everything for her. She is also not a particularly nice person and does not think twice of tantruming when things do not go her way, and is not scared of speaking her mind (ie not saying particularly pleasant things) or making demands. If she falls out with anyone she sees it as the other person's fault and that they were being horrid to her even though the fall out is usually because of her and her acid tongue when the other person wouldn't give her her own way.
As a result of how she behaves, everyone tiptoes around her. People moan about her behind her back but she is invited to everything as no one dares not invite her. They will go out of their way to please her and do favours for her, such as collect her child from school as she is in the middle of watching a film at home! People really do fawn over her and it is quite sickening and baffling to watch.
At a kids' party recently she sat near me and was telling a whole group of us about how she didn't like her job and how she moaned and moaned to her manager and refused to do part of her job, and so they promoted her to shut her up!
AIBU to think that this type of person goes far in life?
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To think that people who were spoilt as children carry on acting spoilt into adulthood and end up having charmed lives?
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PinkPenelope · 07/12/2015 14:51
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