We've been planning to have a quiet christmas at home just us and the kids and Mil. Asked Mil ages ago. Anyway a couple of weeks ago Mil tells us that she thinks sil is going to invite us for Christmas. At the time I said we hadn't had an invite and we were staying at home. Last might sil sends dp a text asking if we want to go to theirs. I DON'T want to go.
Sil is fine. Her dh is a pain in the ass, as is his father. I don't want to spend all day with them. Food is a big thing for me, i look foward to Christmas dinner for months. Sil cant cook. Dp says he doesn't want to go, but "it's family!".
Dp still hasn't texted sil back. Aibu to think he just needs to grow some balls and tell her? I've told him he can go if he wants but I'm staying here.
(It's fine with me if Mil wants to go there, shouldn't be any awkwardness there)
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To wish dp would just tell sil no?
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ginmakesitallok · 05/12/2015 15:11
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