Mil has come to live with us through ill health. It means lots of adjustments all round. I am coping with it most of it but she is so bloody nasty.
She is awful to dsd for some reason. Dsd looks after her on her days off college, cooks lunch, makes constant drinks, keeps her company etc but she never has anything nice to say. She had her in tears last week as she said something really awful about her mum. Very uncalled for. Dsd ran out of the room heartbroken - i told mil how much she had upset her and comforted dsd but she didn't apologise. I asked dh to have a word but he hasn't.
I have just found out that she slags me constantly. The most annoying is she told her friends who came to visit that I don't do anything, dh comes home from work and does everything, cooks, cleans etc when its actually me that does it. This has really got to me as its the bit I find most stressful - cooking her healthy varied meals from her very limited options. Also coming home to pots all over, a pile of washing n ironing (continence issues so seems to be loads extra), as well as taking to her loads of appointments, sorting tablets, hospital etc...
She has always been like this - slags everyone as soon as their backs are turned so am trying to take it with a pinch of salt but how can I get her to stop it? I think dh should do it as its his mum and he should let her know its not acceptable, especially with dsd (his daughter )? Aibu in asking him. So far he is burying his head in the sand but I think being in ill health (mainly mobility wise) does not excuse appalling behaviour. Incidentally she isn't nasty to the other 2 kids (who are mine) or dss who is at uni most if the fine just dsd. I know he hates confrontation and doesn't want to upset her but I think it has to be tackled now and not left to fester.
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Tink06 · 05/12/2015 02:57
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