I'll start by saying I don't think IABU but I want to see what others think before taking this further
Using direct payments for disabled dc we employ a carer. Due to the agency being unable to provide the same carer each time we decided to employ a family member as dc have specific needs and training was needed so having different person from an agency at short notice would not have worked as they wouldn't have been trained
Anyway, today it was declared "dd has done a poo. I don't wipe shit off bums or change shitty nappies"
That's not on is it?
She was fully aware when accepting the job that two of dcs need help in this way and this was said in front of them
I am 99.9% sure it's completely unacceptable. Before getting rid I just wanted some opinions on this. I was completely taken aback by the comment. Luckily it happened just as I was on my way out so I could take over but what if this had happened when I wasn't there? Would dd just have been left?
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Changing nappies/wiping bums
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Teenagecrisisagain · 04/12/2015 22:33
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