My husband died 2 days ago and ive been informing his friends.
One friend who is female and an ex has asked if she can see him in the chapel of rest to say goodbye.
I feel a bit weird about it and dont really know what to say.
Ive told her he had drastically physically altered in his appearance since he got ill and maybe she would be better holding on to the memories instead but she still wants to see him.
Im just not comfortable with the idea of an ex being on her own with him. I know its irrational and im prepared to be told im unreasonable and should get a grip but its niggling me.
She hasnt seen him in a while and he hated the way he looked over the past few months (skeletal and bright yellow). I thought it would just be family and people who saw him regularly that may want to see him.
I feel conflicted and dont know what to think really.
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Ludoole · 04/12/2015 21:11
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