To avoid drip feeding - db has two daughters. My nieces. The younger one (18) lives in a shared flat near him and the older one (21) around 90 mins drive away. Dn1 has Autism and some anxiety/depression as well as mental health problems which are managed with local support. Db and Dn1 have always had a difficult relationship. He's only seen her twice this year and has refused to have her to stay for the past few christmas's. Because of this both Dn's normally spends Christmas day with his parents who live near him. However this year Dn1 managed to secure a p/t job (a huge achievement for her) because of this she needs to return home on boxing day rather than staying for the festive period as she normally would.
Db was asked to help by driving her home on the morning of boxing day. Dn1 doesn't drive and neither do any of the other immediate family (we live over 4 hours away so can't help) after saying he would when asked in October he's today turned around and now said he won't. Meaning Dn will be alone for Christmas... So mad at him Is db unreasonable or are we?
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ApricotDream · 04/12/2015 17:21
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