I think I am being unreasonable and need a gentle slap to get over it.
I got a letter today with my scan appointment. I'm 10 weeks and the appointment is for next week. My GP referred me for an early scan as I had a miscarriage the middle of August. Provided everything shows ok on this scan it will be the only scan I have.
DH has a weeks holiday booked from 7th December.
I called him today to tell him about the scan and he started saying that he has no holiday left and he wouldn't be able to go (it's a minimum 3 hour appointment according to the letter). I reminded him that it would be the only scan and he said we can book a private one. But I want him with me for this one, I'm not usually nervous but after the miscarriage I keep thinking what would I do if they discovered at the scan that the baby had stopped growing. I told him I was nervous and could he swap one of his holidays and he said he wasn't sure
I know I'm being unreasonable but I feel a bit down after the conversation that he doesn't see the scan as important (as background, when they were together his ex had a miscarriage which was only discovered at the scan) so I think he should be a bit more understanding.
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Helgathehairy · 27/11/2015 14:27
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