This year we'd planned to go to in laws, we've never done this before but they are great hosts and it's the baby's first Christmas so was really looking forward to a nice day.
Have since found out that their friends are joining us. They are nice enough but they are really loud. The bloke is quite gobby and opinionated and gets really drunk.
Usually mil does the cooking and she seems happy to do this but dh and fil chip in and offer a hand and at least bring food out and clear up, I do too of course.
I've noticed though that when this other couple are there the women seem to run around and the men happily sit back getting drunk and being loud. My usually equally involved dh seems to go into caveman mode and act oblivious to the baby getting tired or hungry, older ds getting bored and getting silly and leaves it all to me. We will struggle get the baby to sleep because it will be so loud.
We also cosleep with the baby so dh usually only has one beer but they all like a drink so will be chucking the drinks at dh. He doesn't get drunk or act a twat but it just irritates me that I will be the designated driver as usual.
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To be a bit fed up at the prospect of Christmas now?
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Pyjamaramadrama · 27/11/2015 13:21
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