I've had a pretty underwhelming experience with the NHS since discovering I was pregnant.
I had to make an appointment to see the GP first. Have no idea why as all she did was tell me to make an appointment with the midwife at reception.
Made an appointment (took the one they offered, even though the time was really inconvenient), turned up on time. The midwife was 30 mins late (this is fine, I had a book with me). When she took me, she said she no longer had time for my appointment and could I attend the hospital 2 days later as she would be there.
Attended the hospital at said time (more time off work). Midwife greets me with "I don't have time to see you, xxx will see you instead". Do standard blood tests etc with new midwife.
Receive a letter from doctor saying they are unhappy with one of my blood tests. Called to make an appointment with the nurse. When I turned up, she acted like it was a huge hassle to actually explain what the problem was with the blood test, told me I "didn't look pregnant". At this, I told her I had my first scan that afternoon. She asked if my partner was going-he wasn't as he is abroad working to which she replied "haven't you got a mum?" Erm, no, she died a few months ago and I left in tears.
Went to the scan that afternoon, had to fight my way through the pregnant smokers at the door (NHS Scotland is "smoke free"), was 1.5hrs late in being taken for my appointment-no apology. I was the last one in the waiting room so all the staff were standing around moaning about how busy they were, how fed up they were and how over booked the scanning department is.
I understand how over worked and under paid a lot (not all) NHS staff are. I know that appointments run over, and of course urgent cases should be taken first. But I've been left with no real confidence in my care team, and feel that some of my concerns have just been swept under the carpet (eg I had loop diathermy under general anaesthetic in a different area, same country but they can't find my notes so this is not being taken into account).
Am I wrong to expect a bit more?
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Littleelffriend · 25/11/2015 15:25
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