Absolutely seething at latest sibling drama!
I posted a while ago about how I'm going to the city where my 2 sisters live for 24 hours and would like to see them both but they've had a massive fallout so I wasn't sure how to manage both:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/what_would_you_do/2487132-Sisters
Result was, I have arranged to stay with Dsis 1. I felt bad coming to their city and not telling Dsis 2 I was coming, so decided to arrange to see a few friends plus both sisters for a meal, in the hope they'd be diluted enough by the group to both be there without dramas.
Now, I have 2 friends who may be able to attend the meal, but they are both maybes. Which means there is a distinct possibility that it'll be just me and two sisters. Now Dsis 2 has learned that it may just be me and Dsis 1 coming she's accusing me of trying to engineer a make up between them. This was never my intention - rather I did it cos I felt bad only seeing one of them. To be honest I'd dread dinner with just the two of them.
Dsis 2 wants to just meet me for a drink before I have dinner with Dsis 1. On the face of it this is the sensible thing to do. But I feel absolutely seething that she's accused me of trying to engineer a make up between them. Dsis 1 has never reacted negatively to me attempting to see both of them together. However if my 2 friends attend, Dsis 2 will come to the meal. I'm worried there'll be a massive drama and am just so annoying that Dsis 2 has involved me in her dramas - it's so upsetting.
So what do I do? Tell Dsis 2 I won't see her for a drink, it's them together or nothing? Or see Dsis 2 for a drink then go for dinner with Dsis 1, giving out the message I'll pander to the fall out? Don't want a difficult time. Don't want to upset anyone. Really really upset.
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Sibling fall out, stuck in middle, need a decision fast!!
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ThePartyArtist · 24/11/2015 23:02
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