26 week old DS (19 weeks corrected) is increasingly becoming challenging with his feeding - I'm pretty certain he's teething. Things like fighting the bottle, crying etc.
This morning I had a Consultant appointment for my very severe carpal tunnel syndrome - numbness, pain, can't do up buttons etc at the private hospital but as an NHS patient.
DS puked everywhere this morning (reflux), therefore had to feed him AGAIN so I was already rushing around like mad. Then my sat nav took my the wrong way. I eventually got to my appointment, however the car park was full so had to park on a side street and walk in.
Got to the desk and apologised for being late. My appointment was for 10:40, I got there at 10:53. Receptionist said she would have to double check with the Consultant to see if he would still see me. She came back and told me I had to re-book. Well that just set me off crying and I don't ever cry. I told her I was willing to wait and that I was really struggling with my hands and wrists, and that I had a bit of trouble with DS. She was sympathetic and said she'd ask again. The nurse went in but was told nope I would not be seen.
Now I know I was late. But 13 minutes? Do you think that was harsh? I was so very upset and now I am just furious. I am a health professional too and I would never ever turn away a patient like that. I doubt that he had even got to me on the list! Plus even if he had, he had somebody in with him so it's not like he waited for me? I waited 35 minutes the last time I went to see him - which I am not complaining about however puts it in perspective! The receptionist even said he gets like this sometimes about the consultant.
He was just being arsey wasn't he? The next appointment they have for me isn't till late December, so now I am going to have to struggle for another month with feeding DS (sometimes I can't even hold his bottle). I don't think the consultant would have behaved like this if we were in an NHS setting. Do you think he would have sent an elderly person away the same or though bah she's young and late she can fuck off?
So AIBU to say something the next time I see him? And if he makes me wait longer than a minute after my appointment time then that will get mentioned too. I won't be rude but will say that you refused to see me last time as I was 13 minutes late for my appointment and I am struggling terribly with my hands. Or do I just need to get over it?
My hands are numb from typing this post already 😥
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BumWad · 23/11/2015 15:29
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