I have known her since we were little and we were "best friends" till we were late 20's, when we drifted apart a little bit and the last few years i noticed it was always me making the effort to meet etc. so I accepted things weren't the same and stopped bothering as much. but I still classed her as a good friend and would always have been there if she needed me. I still class(ed?) her as family, our dads are best friends and have been since they were kids
have also noticed she now never likes or comments on anything I put on FB, yet she is always on there and does with all her other friends. for example I had some really good news the other day (I have been offered a mortgage) so I posted about it on facebook, literally every one of my friends posted congrats or whatever or liked the status but her. I dunno poss was i a twat for doing that? I dunno. but have worked damn hard for this and been through some awful shit in my life to get to where I am and its not a mansion its a bloody 3 bed semi on a council estate.
anyway it was my birthday at the weekend and she didn't even wish me a happy birthday, (the last few years even when we weren't seeing much of eachother, we always text or facebooked eachother on birthdays) which I just take as a direct snub tbh that she didn't even fb me. its not like she wouldn't have known. and also she is one of these people always on there and she is never too busy to send me invitations to "like" her glittery shit sales page ....I have friends of friends who I have met once saying happy birthday and someone I class as family can't even be arsed.
I accept it if the friendship is over but just feel sad about it and not sure why ...and there is absolutely nothing I can do cos If I spoke to her about it I would look a right needy twat
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