She has just turned 20.
She dropped out of school after her GCSEs. She didnt have an easy time while she was there. She is quite the introvert and most people find her a bit odd. She just completely lacks in any proper social skills what so ever. She does have a few friends who she has known a long time because as a younger child she was a lot more confident.
She was bullied badly at school. She made some bad choices for herself which I cant go into and it made her an easy target. She just completely lost her confidence and rarely goes anywhere. She has suffered from depression/anxiety and has never really seemed to of come out of it.
She works part time, unpaid for a friend who started up her own business. We agreed with her that she could do it for a year to help her out a bit. But she wants to do it for longer.
We cant support her forever. She doesnt ask for much really but even paying for food and keeping her housed does cost us money.
She rarely goes out. Shes more interested in sitting at home playing on her xbox, doing colouring in and playing with her old toys. This is 4 days a week at least. She just showing no interest in getting a "proper" job. She just refuses.
I dont know how we are supposed to help her. We have paid for different types of therapy and she says it doesnt help.
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To be at wits end with my daughter?
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XyloMylo15 · 21/11/2015 20:00
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