I am not from the UK, but I live here now. I have a DS and am currently pregnant with child #2.
DS started nursery in September and while the nursery is lovely and all the workers are kind and quite laid back and DS seems to be having a wonderful time, I feel like I am not doing a very good job of it. For example, this week had a theme (you know superheroes, pirates, ninjas, fairies, that type of thing) as they are supporting Children in Need and so I got a letter saying that I could enter a contest (£1 for a strip of 10) to win a fancy cake and that I could pay £1 for DS to be dressed like a character from the theme on a certain day.
Well, I didn't really understand the contest was a raffle and the strip of 10 things was 10 tickets (I guess that would have been obvious to everyone else?) and I didn't understand that I was supposed to dress DS up in themed fashion and then pay the £1 (I thought they meant that I would pay them to dress him up) and so he turned up in his normal clothes and looked a bit forlorn at all the other children in their fancy dress and it just sort of felt like the most recent incident in a string of incidents where I just didn't really understand what was going on and my DS was the worse for it.
I am starting to despair at the idea of DS going to school next year because I feel like I am still going to have no idea what's going on and DS will be much more aware that he's the only kid not dressed wearing a Spiderman/Iron Man/Batman costume (although at least I know that one now) or I will find myself in a situation where I'm supposed to bring a cake to school (I seem to see a lot on mumsnet about cakes and school) and everyone else will have brought fairy cakes or Rice Krispie things and I will be the only mug there with a damn sweaty lemon drizzle. And everyone is going to think I'm either an idiot or a terrible mother because I don't know anything about primary school.
Which brings me to my point: I don't know anything about what school is like in this country, so what do I need to know about having a kid in primary school? Or better yet, what do you wish you had known before that no one told you/you didn't realize? Please help me not be "that mum"!
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strictlylurking · 13/11/2015 11:05
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