I would really appreciate your views on this.
Some people close to us very sadly suffered a neonatal loss a little while back.
They have been extraordinarily strong in the face of such an awful event and have picked themselves up and continued to look to the future with positivity in a way I could not imagine being capable of.
Shortly after the loss, I discovered I was pregnant and have not had the chance to tell them yet. DH tried to set up a meeting with the husband of the couple but it hasn't been possible as they have been genuinely too busy.
We are now due to see them in a couple of weeks and I have a visible bump and am very obviously pregnant. They have amazing hearts and have never shown any resentment to others over fertility and children in the past though it would have been understandable. Do we need to tell them I'm pregnant before we meet or is face to face better?
Thanks in advance.
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Aibuaddict · 08/11/2015 22:17
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