I need some advice.
I live with my DW and our DD, who is two.
I work 30 hours a week as a support worker for people with learning disabilities.
My partner is waiting for an nhs diagnosis (re: autism and dyspraxia) she has been waiting for nearly two years now. She is high functioning but in receipt of the enhanced daily living component of PIP, as she needs a lot of help and prompting with daily tasks etc. and cannot be left on her own for very long at all, she falls over a lot, leaves the gas on and forgets to change sanitary items etc.
I've been a lurker on some of the boards for a while as DD is currently also going through an assessment for autism.
Previously her mum and dad cared for DW and DD when I was at work. However due to financial reasons her mum has had to go back in to full time work and this is unlikely to change for quite some time. This has left us with a problem as DW's dad is 73, not in the best of health, and understandably falls asleep quite often through the day.
Yesterday DW scalded her lower stomach and legs quite badly when she dropped the kettle while trying to make a cup of tea because her father was asleep. She did not wake him up or say anything and she cannot use phones unless to talk to me or her mum which meant she didn't get any help until I finished work three hours later.
DW is currently 15 weeks pregnant. Not planned (failed contraception) but still we are happy and excited.
However I am very worried about what we can do. I tried to ask a family member to help us out but as DW doesn't know her very well she didn't tolerate her in the house for very long, she certainly wouldn't let anyone else help her with personal care.
We have no savings at all and so I can't afford to give up work.
I am just very worried about what we are going to do and wondered if there were any options I haven't been able to think of?
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To wonder what the hell I'm supposed to do?! Re:Disabled partner
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WorriedDad75 · 02/11/2015 14:02
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