My friend's partner is an absolute bellend. He's verbally abusive to her(and only her), lazy, rude and selfish. My friend tells me all this. He's treated her depsicably fairly recently - can't go into great detail but she ended up in hospital for a few days due to her lifelong illness, leading up to this he told her she was making it all up and not helping out with any child/house related issues depute her asking. He stayed in bed instead and she ended up in a&e.
To the outside world though - she tells everyone he's bloody wonderful. Gushes on fb about him and how much she loves him how wonderful he is. As result of above gushing - I've felt myself distance myself from her a bit. I'm sick of hearing how dreadful he is and then her telling the outside world how amazing he is. I've been honest about my feelings to my friend - I don't understand why she puts up with it and he's abusive. Since I have made my feelings clear I haven't seen her as much. Maybe I shouldn't have said?
Aibu to not see her as much - it seems as if we both feel that way at the moment. Maybe I shouldn't have been as honest about how he treats her? I just hate to hear it. She does know where I am if she needs me and I'd always help her out if I could - and have done when her 'd'p should have been the one in certain situations.
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Not to see my friend as much due to her partner
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Thighbrow · 30/10/2015 21:08
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