I was let down by childcare today, I couldn't get the day off work myself so as a last resort I called my dad and asked if he would mind having ds (5) for the day. I was surprised when he agreed - reason being my dad is irresponsible and feckless, always has been. I would not normally ask him to care for ds but I was desperate and he seemed really up for it, talking about what he was going to do with ds and I really thought it was going to be ok.
He picked him up at 8.30 this morning, and I rang at lunch time to see how things were going. Ds came on the phone and told him how Grandad was going to take him to the sealife centre and out for lunch when he got back 'from the shops'. My dad lives with my grandmother who is in her late 80s with a lot of health problems, hence why I would never ask her to have ds by herself. I asked my nan if my dad was on his way back, and she said he was.
I've just called again, to find out my dad has not come back. Ds was so sad on the phone when he told me he wasn't going to see the fishes or have a burger after all. So he has now been in the sole care of my 85 year old grandmother all day. Work are letting me leave early.
I am so angry. My dad had one job, to give his only grandson a fun day. But he has let me down and worse, he has let ds down who was so looking forward to this. My dad has disappointed me over and over all my life I don't know why I'm surprised. I'm so pissed off.
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VicWillia · 29/10/2015 13:30
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