I'm a mid twenties female working in the construction industry. My job role commands me to administer construction contracts, which include instructing works and verifying costs/variations given to me by the contractor. Basically, I'm the decision maker both in works and finances once a job is on site.
I had a verbal disagreement with a contractor today, over the phone that is. I was attempting to explain my position and he was continuing to talk over me, raising his voice etc. He then said "don't patronise me, I'm 47 years old with two children".
WTF?! It riles me how often I get this response from males in this industry. I've worked hard to get where I am and I'm just doing my job. But they hate the fact that a young woman is essentially telling them what to do.
If my male colleague (who is only 2 years older than me) had spoken to this chap and said exactly the same things I was saying, he wouldn't have said that comment. It's infuriating. Why just because I am a woman, do they think they can speak to me that way?
I apologised in any event and suggested we end the conversation as we were going round in circles and readdress it tomorrow when I'm back at the office.
I had casual sexism from a senior boss at my company the other week! Regarding the exact same work several of my male colleagues were doing.
I hope it gets better with age. I can't do anything about my gender though!
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HappyGoLuckyGirl · 28/10/2015 17:30
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