So I earn more than DH (even though I am part time). He changed jobs and I have bore the brunt of everything to help him in his probation period (ALL child sickness, appointments, hospital appointments, dentist etc). Tonight, for the first time this year, I asked him to come home early (flexible working, he can do this as long as he starts early) so he can help me in the evening so I can go to parent interviews at school. He went in early - but came home late (I still made interviews but just!). I have my own work, which is very stressful at the moment, plus had to deal with dinner, homework, responding to work emails, washing clothes, doing online shopping etc etc etc. I am pissed off that he promised to come home early, and didn't even call - just a text when he was on the train an hour and a half late already. There was no emergency at his work - I would say my job is much more stressful than his at any rate. It annoys me that we rely so heavily on my salary but then he acts as if he is the main breadwinner. Anyway, went to parent interviews, have come home and told him that he takes advantage and is inconsiderate - no blazing row, just told him firmly and he is now sulking in the other room, and HASN'T EVEN ASKED HOW THE PARENT INTERVIEWS WENT. Which infuriates me even more! AIBU?
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