My DS started school this year. Was loving it, all was good. One day we dropped him off and one particular child (who I had witnessed being "spirited" in the playground and at settling in sessions before and who DS had said was in trouble quite a bit) started pushing him and tickling him to the point where my DS started to get upset. The mother made no attempt to stop him so I asked him to stop. He then stole my DS's hat and the Mum got it back after a fight but no telling off at all. We moved away and I've not stood with her since.
DS then told me he had done this in school with his bag. I wrote the teacher a letter (as I was at work so couldn't see her in person for a week) asking that they just keep an eye on the two of them so my DS doesn't have his things taken off him anymore.
Cut to today, they warn my Mum when she picked up that my DS has a huge chunk of hair missing and they don't know how. He refuses to say to anyone who did it. I initially laughed it off but he seemed apprehensive so I said in a jokey way "Did Bob do it?" (made up name of a nice boy that plays a lot with DS but with the other child too). DS said Yes, Bill (spirited boy) told him to.
It's parents evening tomorrow. I understand that kids do this stuff all the time. I cut my brothers hair. It's only hair and will grow back, but this is at school where they should be supervised with scissors because of eyes etc, esp given that I'd specifically highlighted issues with this child and DS. I don't want to be over protective or "that parent" but my DS is scalped! How could they not have noticed while he was doing it? I am new to this, how do I broach it?
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tywinlannister · 21/10/2015 19:32
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