ExH and I split up nearly ten years ago and since then over the years he has fallen out with most of his family and they have nothing to do with each other. A few years back one of his siblings asked if they could give my children's Xmas presents to me rather than ExH as they don't speak and in the past he'd not really acknowledged the presents.
So for the past few years two of his siblings give the presents to me and I've bought presents back for their children in return as I felt I had to. I might be being unreasonable but I feel it's my ExH's responsibility to buy the presents for his family not mine. I'm a single mum with very little money and its a massive strain to buy presents for four extra kids.
ExH definitely would not pay towards the presents I buy for his family btw. I don't have anything to do with his family other than the Xmas gift exchange and I'm wondering if IBU to say nicely to them that either could they give the presents to ExH or as I'm struggling maybe we could stop exchanging gifts? All of the respective children get loads of stuff for Christmas as it is.
I haven't bought massive gifts for them in the past but it all mounts up so much and I literally hand to budget to the 'nth' degree to get through Xmas.
Your opinions/suggestions would be very welcome
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AIBU to stop giving these children Xmas presents?
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fieryfighter · 19/10/2015 13:51
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