Background, I do not use my parents ever for childcare. They are late fifties/ early sixties and in good health. Live 15 min away. They will take my children occasionally, but not as a favour, they will ring last min to say they'll have them for x hours at x time. It's often inconvienient but for the sake of the chi,dress relationships I normally rearrange my day. It could be weekly, or not for months.
I'm expecting my third baby, and I'm having a bit of a problem with childcare if it's nighttime. I know the day I'm induced. My friends are great, will drop anything in the day to help with childcare and I have many offers. However nights are harder, I have two under five and it's a bit much to ask friends with their own children to take them.
My parents wouldn't babysit that night if I went into labour, I'd only want dh there for actual birth so unlikely to be a long sit. I could have a friend there by morning so they could go to work, my kids sleep well, the commute is no further for them from mine.
It just feels a bit crap that mums I barely know at school and my new neighbours have all offered to help, mostly in trickier circumstances, but my parents aren't inclined.
Whilst it would be entitled to expect regular childcare I'd have hoped they'd bother for a one off. My last child was prem and so my arranged childcare was unavailable so I ended up giving birth alone as dh had dd (you can actually see the hospital from their house)
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PippedPopped · 16/10/2015 13:31
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