I have a df from childhood, who has always slightly looked down her nose at me and my family. But it's always been fine, and just her personality.
But recently, she has a new dp who is very high up in his career. When we occasionally meet up, she feels the need to tell me his salary. But not just his, she seems to know and mentions everyone's! If she doesn't know for sure, she hazards a guess. That seems to be that person's defining feature for her. eg: So and so's sister must be earning at least 100k a year I would say, but her partner maybe only earns about 25k.
I haven't asked for this information. I just listen, nodding occasionally, to her talk about salaries, diamonds and designer handbags. I've never heard of these designers, and I don't know what she's talking about any more. I feel like I really can't relate to any of what she's saying, but I've known her so long that she's like family.
Have I missed something? Is this what rich people talk about all the time? I always thought that you weren't supposed to mention money?
I feel like Shrek in the swamp talking to that Harry Enfield character: We are considerably richer than yaaaou!
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To wonder if it's the done thing to know the details of other people's salaries?
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Stanky · 03/10/2015 06:23
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