Ds2 is 9 weeks and I am on maternity leave at home with him and ds 3.5. We have no family or support nearby and I was a bit nervous about how I would do with the two but I am thrilled and quite proud of myself; we're getting out lots and doing really great. I am feeding ds2 so that, dinner and laundry are my priorities for the day along with keeping ds1 happy.
Anyway dh tells me all I care about lately is ds1&2-is that not pretty normal at this point? I ask him each day how his day was and give him a round up of ours. It's a month since he went back to work and I just realised yesterday he hasn't called me once since then-apart from returning mine-to see how we've been doing. He is still in the spare room and I have asked him a few times if he's planning on returning-baby not that disruptive at night, though I am awake a lot feeding and he sleeps on me from around 5-he said 'there's not much point is there?' Am I being over-sensitive to take offence at that? Surely the point would be closeness and company at a time when we are pretty hectic during the day. If I thought it was going to really impact his sleep I wouldn't expect it.
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mikado1 · 01/10/2015 09:06
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