I'll keep it brief, but just hoping for some opinions on this please? I've been with my lovely DH for a long time now, we have a brilliant Rship, 3 DCs. I Divorced my awful XH years ago.
DH and I moved house at the beginning of the year, Mountains of things were crammed away, but a week ago i I went through old boxes, and came across my 1st very old MP3 player. I'd forgotten about it. I put it in to charge and it still works. I think for that one time in the Rship, my X actually went 'all out', and put thought behind a gift . It has all the songs that i grew up loving. So when I found it, I charged it and have it ready to use again when I go out for a run walk.
My DH though, has really made this into an issue, and I don't know if he's actually right. He said I should get rid of it, and why do I need to 'be reminded' of my XH.
I don't see it as a reminder of anyone, its just the music I loved, and still like to listen to when I'm out on my own. Nothing else.
It really isn't a reminder of XH. He bought the present i know, but i liked the music before i even met him in the first pkace?.
I just would like to know if people on MN think IWBU to keep the present, or if DH is right and it should go? Thanks in advance
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Itsacoupleofsongswhocares · 17/09/2015 23:32
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