I still live at home with my parents while in the process of moving into my DPs house (we need to redecorate everything so more logical for me to stay at home till we have finished).
My parents have gone away on holiday and my younger brother is at home before he goes back to uni so it's just us in the house. Yesterday he texted to ask if he could have some friends over. I didn't want to say no so I explained I hadn't been sleeping well and very stressed at work so whilst I had no problem could it please be only a few friends and could they keep it down after 11. No problem he says so all is good and I left them to it. Stupid mistake.
Apparently 22 year old men still haven't learnt how to be considerate or respectful to others. One of them is also a father so they aren't all uni kids, some work full time and some study. At midnight I had 4 guys in the bathroom next to my room raucously cheering on one who was chundering. One of them then shouted for the rest to come at watch and continued shouting a conversation with someone downstairs. I realise I should have said something at this point but I just grit my teeth and they eventually all went back downstairs and I dropped off to sleep.
At 1:30 in the morning I was woken up by them all screaming at the TV. Properly screaming on and on. I lost it at this point and stormed downstairs. I told them all to shut the fuck up and get out NOW! I did also call them a bunch of disrespectful, inconsiderate cunts who have no awareness of their actions and the effect on other people, pointing out that in the adjoining house there was a toddler, a 6 month old and a teenager as well as two adults who all had lives to live tomorrow whilst they could be lying in bed all day doing fuck all. I'll admit it was OTT but I just flipped.
My brother looked suitably ashamed and said sorry and the noise died down and I didn't get woken up again.
This morning the house was a state, the kitchen was covered in sick, beer, food and god knows what else. One of his friends had stayed over and woke up when I went into the living room and grinned at me and said 'oh sorry about the noise last night!' While laughing. I completely ignored him as I had nothing constructive to say as I was still raging and his chirpy attempt at an apology just made me want scream.
I have calmed down now but I don't know what to say to my brother tonight when I get back from work. I'd like to explain calmly that he's an adult and that he has to start being considerate and the general behaviour was out of order. WIBU to bring it up or should I just let it go? I'm angry now because I found joints lying around and my dads anniversary present to my mum lying amongst their debris as they'd obviously been playing with it which makes me sad at the level of disrespect he has.
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MistressChalk · 11/09/2015 13:23
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