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AIBU?

Child peeing in supermarket car park

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Daffodil1210 · 05/09/2015 22:43

DH and I were out shopping today and as we were getting DS out of the car and into his buggy, a family returned to their car parked just along from us having been shopping in the supermarket.

Cue one of the boys (around 7 or 8 years old) deciding to have a pee by the side of his car, actively encouraged by his mother as she loads her shopping and the other children into the car.

Is this normal and AIBU for being surprised at this? FWIW there is definitely a loo in the supermarket, and the only thing I can think is that perhaps the mother didn't want to have the hassle of taking him back in to use it.

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YouBastardSockBalls · 05/09/2015 22:45

Yanbu.

My 2 year old weed in Aldo car park last week against the wheel, I might add - but he's 2 and I was mortified.

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Samcro · 05/09/2015 22:45

maybe they needed to go

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YouBastardSockBalls · 05/09/2015 22:45

Aldi

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BrandNewAndImproved · 05/09/2015 22:45

Well I haven't done this in a carpark but if we're walking home from school and halfway home ds starts jumping around saying he needs a wee I tell him to go up ahead and wee by a wall. My ds wee isn't really different then all the dogs wee everywhere.

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southeastastra · 05/09/2015 22:46

don't worry about it

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mountainofdreams · 05/09/2015 22:46

YANBU, very unnecessary if there is a loo nearby. Really disgusting chavvy behaviour! I can't believe the child wouldn't be mortified weeing do publicly at that age and the parents should be ashamed.

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spanisharmada · 05/09/2015 22:46

Don't know, don't care TBH. If he'd done a shit I'd be Shock though.

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Samcro · 05/09/2015 22:47

hang on was he in a P&C SPACE?

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OurBlanche · 05/09/2015 22:47

Yeah, it's illegal, technically. But even at 7 I couldn't get exercised by it.

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MissBattleaxe · 05/09/2015 22:47

Well it's not ideal but if the mum had other kids and was packing the shopping in the car I dare say a discreet wee behind the car isn't the end of the world.

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TestingTestingWonTooFree · 05/09/2015 22:48

If girls/women have to wait, why is it ok for boys/men to urinate publicly? I don't think it is. (Exception for desperate toddlers).

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blibblobblub · 05/09/2015 22:48

YAB a bit U I think.

She probably couldn't face the hassle of getting all the kids back into the supermarket. It's not ideal, but quicker to go in the car park I guess.

I know I was held over several grates as a child. Maybe not at 7 or 8 though...

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Hendoisthecaptain · 05/09/2015 22:48

My DS has weed by the side of the car hundreds of times. He has a chronic bladder problem which results in urgently needing to urinate. Not a big deal IMO.

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RainbowFlutterby · 05/09/2015 22:48

DS has problems which are under investigation. If he needs to go he needs to go NOW. We don't all have perfect bladders, maybe her DS is one of those that doesn't.

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Hoplikeabunny · 05/09/2015 22:53

I literally wouldn't even bat an eyelid if I saw this. Dogs wee everywhere, why is the wee of a 7 year old worse than dog wee?

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dannydyerismydad · 05/09/2015 22:55

I saw this in Mothercare car park.

I wouldn't have minded, but the mother pointed her child at MY car rather than her own.

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ChickenTikkaMassala · 05/09/2015 22:56

YANBU OP, I've seen a toddler urinate on a pavement by a main road once but according to MN it was acceptable Grin

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Greengardenpixie · 05/09/2015 23:05

well if he needed to go, i dont see a problem. She probably had other kids, loads of shopping and couldnt take him. When i was little it was commonplace to see men urinating in public. Not that i agree with that but a child is different. When on holiday we had to do it frequently through Europe. We couldnt find a toilet and were miles away from anything. The problem was, getting our children to do it! They were bursting but didnt want to pee in outisde!!!

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Purplepoodle · 05/09/2015 23:08

my 7 year old decided to do this whilst I was loading his brothers into the car from daycare. I was a bit stunned and just quietly told him it's not nice and he needs to ask to use the toilet next time

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Mermaidhair · 05/09/2015 23:14

Yanbu, it is disgusting and totally unnecessary. Illegal to. Due to laziness and poor planning.

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mom2twoteens · 05/09/2015 23:24

Yep. I think it's disgusting too. He's seven and there's a toilet nearby. YUK!

At what age will he realise it's not on or will he still be peeing whenever he feels the need at 14 or 18 or 25. Disgusting. (Lazy mother)

Also saw a boy of around seven or eight peeing at the side of the road this morning. In full view of everyone, no effort made to step into the trees. (Although he may have stepped in poo if another child had been in there earlier.) They were right next to the Fire Station where an open day was going on and judging by the stuff the family were carrying, I'd guess they had just left. Why do men think they can pee in public, surely they aren't made with smaller bladders, are they?

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Flashbangandgone · 05/09/2015 23:56

It's illegal, you should have called the police.

I'm guessing this is a joke.... I don't exactly condone this behaviour but wtf are the police going to do! Send round a squad car with blue lights flashing to apprehend the culprits before they leave?

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Flashbangandgone · 05/09/2015 23:58

Unpleasant as this might be, is this actually illegal?!?

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Aeroflotgirl · 06/09/2015 00:00

I don't know, as he could have had a medical problem which meant he needed to wee urgently. If he did nit, than YANBU, it's not on.

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