My DS hasn't always found the social side of school easy; there have been no bullying issues that we are aware of but he is quiet and tends to be overlooked.
He has made a friend recently who's home life seems pretty grim - i won't go into detail but I have put in a phone call to SS about this, although nothing has happened that I know of.
At any rate, DS and his friend have been spending a fair bit of time together in the school holidays which is fine and because there's a large gap between DS and his sisters I am pleased for this little boy to join us and obviously I'm not going to buy my own children ice creams or entry to somewhere and not pay for him and given the situation at home I wouldn't ask his mother about it.
But, I am concerned about his influence over DS not being a positive one (bad language being an issue) and about the fact I feel I should protect DS from negative influences.
DH wants us/me to politely send small child on his way when he calls for DS, saying he is a bad influence on our son. I am more inclined to think our DS is a good influence on this child - and to be honest I'm pleased he's got a friend and seems happy.
But I can't work out if I'm being a bit naive or not. I thought I'd ask on here but have name changed in case the little boys mum reads
What do you think?
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cornbarley · 18/08/2015 10:27
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