Background. We live in a terrace house on a semi-pedestrianised street. Five houses down there's a couple who own an alsatian. It barks almost continuously during the day (presumably when they are out at work). You can hear this if you are in our front garden, and it's very loud as you walk past their house and the adjoining houses, to the extent that other neighbours and passers by comment. When the dog is taken for walks I've noted it is always muzzled
Today, I walked with my children (6 and 3) to the local shops past their house. Their front door was open. The alsatian shot out of the house and chased us down the road barking loudly. I retreated with the children to our house, shaking, and had some difficulty in unlocking the front door. It stood at our gate, barking - I wasn't sure if it was going to jump round or over.
I found it frightening, as did the children.
The owner swiftly followed 2 minutes later, apologising profusely. She said it was a mistake, that the dog should always be muzzled and on a lead and it wouldn't happen again. She said she had got it back 'with a pig's ear'. I asked her what the dog's behaviour was. She said it liked to 'nip' jogger's ankles but wouldn't hurt children. She then hesitated and said that with a child it might...(I wasn't sure what the silence meant - jump on a child? Lick a child?) and then she started apologising again.
I told her that I understood accidents happen but that I was angry and that it had been very frightening. I also said that she couldn't absolutely promise that it wouldn't happen again, as it might happen again - so I was left concerned about the dog and our safety. What, for example, if she ran out of pig's ears? I wasn't delighted that while the dog was chasing us down the road, she was presumably looking in the fridge for meat to tempt it back. I felt very isolated out there on the road trying to get into my house as their dog got nearer and nearer to our small children.
My background is that I'm not a dog-owner, I think dogs are generally good things, but I can be nervous around them when they jump on me. Personally, my perception/sense is this isn't a happy dog in this environment (evidence is the continuous barking suggesting it is indoors a lot, and its desire to escape this morning). But that's my perception.
Like most of us, I have read the awful stories in newspapers about dogs attacking children, and this has obviously compounded my experience today.
Is there anything more I can or should do apart from drink tea and reassure the children?
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smeraldina · 11/08/2015 10:49
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