Inspired by a couple of threads in the last couple of days. I'm going to come right out and say it: thank you cards are a pain in the backside. Sending them is a hassle (particularly when you've just had a baby or something like that) and receiving them means that my mantelpiece is cluttered up for an indeterminate amount of time (when IS it socially acceptable to throw away a picture of someone's PFB?)
On top of this, it's the obligation that I object to. If someone chooses to send me a gift I assume they are doing that to bring me some happiness, not to demand my gratitude. I send gifts because it's a nice thing to do and it might make my friend smile. Getting annoyed about a lack of thanks rather undermines the kindness of the original gift.
So AIBU to say that it is inappropriate to expect thank you cards and to positively embrace "thanks" via text, email or phone-call or even get none at all?
I feel similarly about Christmas cards but that's a whole other thread.
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Thank you cards (lighthearted-ish)
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ChampagneTastes · 06/08/2015 12:02
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