We bought a cat about two years ago, over the last year he has been playing outside and for the first few months was too scared to leave our garden, gradually he seemed to go further and stay out for longer until sometimes he would go missing for days. We were worried sick and my partner would stay up until early hours each morning with the lounge window open incase he came back. After a few incidences of him disappearing for maybe 3 or 4 days at a time we found out he had been staying in the neighbours house, they laughingly told us he sleeps on their bed and what he eats etc.
Then about two months ago he vanished, he stopped coming home completely, the longest he had ever been gone was about 5 days so after a week we were beside ourselves, obviously we discovered the neighbours had taken him in again. They told us they tried to put him outside but he just ran back in and they had given up and bought him a litter tray, bed etc, they found this all adorable and although were nice about it una. 'What can you do? Cats are cats!' Kind of way I felt that buying him food etc was just enticing him but we continued to call him each night to no avail.
He now won't enter our garden, hisses at our children from the fence and won't even look at you when you call his name. He has essentially disowned us, we are upset but at least we know he is safe and being fed etc.
Now for the AIBU. The neighbours have knocked at our house this morning asking for us to take him to the vet as he had a fight last night and is hurt. They are refusing to take him or pay as he is 'our cat'. As much as I love and miss him AIBU to tell them to get to fuck and pay themselves since they have essentially adopted him for two months straight and I haven't so much as been able to stroke him?
If IABU I can accept this but it seems so unfair that he no longer lives with is yet we are expected to pay for his upkeep.
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Who is BU, us or the neighbours regarding the cat?
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ChristmasYoni · 03/08/2015 10:47
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