AIBU reasonable to be laid in bed crying because it's my birthday and all of my family (except dad) and most of my friends (apart from 2 new friends I have made at church) have forgotten to even send a text or Facebook message. I think it's worse because my mother killed herself the night before my birthday 4 years ago.
Is it me? I would want to see how that person was today.
DH has remembered, so have the in-laws, my dad sent me a rather weird card about custard (no idea) but I did remind him on Wednesday it was my birthday today.
About 8 years ago no one remembered my birthday at all and I was at the time in a very dark place. I remember thinking if I disappeared no one would notice.
How do people cope with people they love and care for just forgetting? other people seem to have a million happy birthday messages on social media. I want to bin it, but I can't because where I volunteer is co-ordinated by bloody Facebook.
Can someone hand me a fucking grip and a plan on how not to repeat this wallowing next year.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Another shit birthday
33 replies
captainproton · 02/08/2015 12:09
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.