I started a new job last week in a new town.
I spent the last week sofa surfing my brother and a bedsit.
DH and the DD are still in our rental house in London.
We are totally skint until payday on the last day of August.
We are totally crap with money and because of Illness and unemployment and DH fucking up benefits we are now a month and a bit behind on rent.
We also have a shite credit reference. This is making it hard to rent somewhere in the new town.
I could do with some help sorting out what to do with this pickle.
DH want to just hand the jeys back to the Landlord, rock up in Poole, where my job is and throw himself and the DD's on the mercy of the housing people just to get a roof over our heads. We have one way train tickets but a friend has offered to drive us back to our place in London if DH gets no joy from the council Monday.
Everything about our situation is the worst possible. Rent arrears, no guarantor, no money, its a mess and I don't know what to do anymore
I don't think it's a good idea. Everything about our situation is making me feel sick.
My options feel very limited.
Go to job by myself sofa surf until welcome is worn out.
Go to job with family, throw ourselves on the mercy of the council.
Quit job in Poole find another job in London, save save save.
This is all stuff we should have done but DH suddenly list his Job in March and we've had difficulties since then. I did start a thread in chat a couple of weeks ago but I can't find it for some reason.
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How stupid am I being new job, new town, home or no home
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Idontknowjustsomething · 02/08/2015 08:26
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