These Summer holidays are so far driving me mad, we managed 4 days away as a family last week and it was complete and utter nightmare, we have 2 children with sn. This week is also proving to be another hard one. Just really need a break. I know it sounds selfish and its all part and parcel of having children but we were talking last night about saving up for an holiday abroad just me and him in 9 years together weve never had a proper holiday together its a lovely idea but cant see it happening :(
We get the odd weekend to ourself and we had a weekend away in january paid for by the inlaws as a joint 30th birthday present but weekends go so fast and half the time by the time weve travelled and in constant contact with mother in law about the children its like weve blinked and missed it :(
Is it cheeky of us to ask in laws to have them for a week? Although always happy to have them and often offer at least MIL would have to book it off work. Hes said he reckons she would with enough notice (and she probilly would to be fair) but just feels wrong to think about it let alone asking and I dont think I could switch off worrying thought of been in another country away from them is a pretty daunting thuoght
So what im wondering is it is unreasonable to him to ask her? On the other hand we could deffinately do with a break together even if we stay in uk.
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vodkanchocolate · 30/07/2015 11:33
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