I have an old school friend with whom I always exchanged birthday/ Christmas presents. We see each other every other month and our DHs get on well too.
When her 1st DC was born I started buying presents for her too (birth gift, Christening, birthdays & Christmas). My friend is very organised and always sends out gift lists.
However my friend has recently had number 3 and I was sent a gift list for her baby shower, then another with birth announcement card. Then it was the Christening last week which required another gift. I duely bought gifts as I didn't want to do less for her DC3 than I've done for the other 2.
But this week it's also her DC2's birthday and she's emailed me another John Lewis gift list where no present is under £15 and some are £60!
AIBU to feel completely overwhelmed by the number of presents I'm buying? Her husband is an investment banker whereas money is rather tight in our household.
If I'm being totally honest, I'm also conscious that I have 1 DC and the presents my friend buys for him don't reflect that I've spent 2x (now to be 3x) as much on her DCs.
Does anyone have any advice as to how to nicely extract myself from this self-inflicted present buying extravaganza?
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Dontloookbackinanger · 28/07/2015 14:52
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