My lovely Mum passed away almost 3 weeks ago after being diagnosed with cancer in March. The end came very suddenly and I am devastated. I have a few different groups of friends, one being a crowd of 6 girls who ive been friends with for between 15-20 years. We only meet up/have any contact around 3 or 4 times a year due to geographics and family commitments but have shared holidays, weekends away and been to each other's weddings and I consider them all close friends despite not seeing one another all the time. So, after my mum passed away I texted one of the girls who happened to have sent me a text a couple of days previously to tell her the sad news and ask her to let the others know. Subsequently, I received either a text, email or card from all but 2 of these girls. I am struggling to understand why 2 friends who themselves come from very close families don't even acknowledge that a friend has had such a significant loss. One part of me is cross that I'm even wasting my emotions on this but it seems to be adding to my feelings of 'what's life all about'. I actually feel like I never want anything to do with either of them again but perhaps that's my grief talking. X
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