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AIBU?

...to want to yell at parents for yelling at their kids...

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ithinkalittlepeecameout · 26/07/2015 09:24

I know I'm gradually turning in to a grumpy old woman but....
Parents that yell from a distance to their kids, usually to stop doing something or start doing something. Then after the 5th or 6th attempt at screeching at them resort to idle threats.
One example: Mother and daughter in a park, Mum sitting on the bench, daughter sitting on the grass. "Doris,put your i-pad away were leaving" ( as Mum continues to use her phone)
After the 5th "Put the i-pad away" ( As Mum continues to play with HER phone) Mum resorts to "If you don't put it away I'll take it off you" Another 5 times......
All I want to do is get up from the other end of the bench (sitting enjoying the sun last week) yell at both of them " Both of you Get off you bloody appliances and piss off"
AIBU or just really grumpy at the moment

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woowoo22 · 26/07/2015 09:35

YANBU

Iggi999 · 26/07/2015 09:36

You are just really grumpy at the moment.

Hannahouse · 26/07/2015 09:37

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fruitbat2008 · 26/07/2015 09:41

I understand where you are coming from but with three children it's not that easy sometimes.

fustybritches · 26/07/2015 09:44

Yanbu about that specific situation, but if your dc are far away and you need to get their attention, what do you suggest OP?

ApocalypseThen · 26/07/2015 09:46

My brother in law does this. As a consequence, his children are a nightmare.

Yarp · 26/07/2015 09:48

YANBU

ithinkalittlepeecameout · 26/07/2015 09:50

I'd get off my fat ass and go to said children fruitbat

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CruCru · 26/07/2015 10:00

Hmm. Thing is, when I shout at my kids it's rarely only because of the thing they've just done but rather that they've been a little bugger all day and the latest thing has tipped me over the edge.

YABU.

MargotLovedTom · 26/07/2015 10:04

YNBU - just get up and do it!

However, agree with CruCru re the losing temper yelling. Two out of my three have bickered so relentlessly this week that it's been like a form of torture. I have lost my shit several times. Not big and not clever and all that but, my God, you'd need the patience of Job not to.

Andrewofgg · 26/07/2015 10:05

what do you suggest OP?

Er . . . get up off your arse and speak to the child at a distance where you don't have to yell to be heard and ignored because she can hear you and ignore you without shouting?

ithinkalittlepeecameout · 26/07/2015 10:06

It not the yelling at kids, everyone yells at their kids.
It's the wanting them to do something, but can't really be arsed to get off my backside and deal with /help them do it attitude. Just keep shouting the same order over and over, then revert to threats that your not going to carry out.

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Andrewofgg · 26/07/2015 10:09

I remember an angry shout in Southend (out of season, almost certainly a local) of Stop that fucking swearing.

BleachEverything · 26/07/2015 10:10

I agree OP. I cringe at how some people can't control their kids.

fourtothedozen · 26/07/2015 10:13

everyone yells at their kids

No they don't.

Mrsjayy · 26/07/2015 10:22

If we were in a park id yell we are going then go get them if they didnt move this constant shouting and empty threat stuff gets on my wick the kids obviously know their parent wont carry it through so they take the piss yanbu

SiobhanSharpe · 26/07/2015 10:26

Er, yeah that'll work.

thenumberseven · 26/07/2015 10:38

I first read Dr. Benjamin Spock's book on baby and child care about forty years ago but I still remember he calls this sounding off by parents.

Very ineffectual parenting I'd say
YANBU

Mrsjayy · 26/07/2015 10:40

Its feeble imo

thenumberseven · 26/07/2015 10:40

Andrew

sebsmummy1 · 26/07/2015 10:42

I agree. Constantly yelling at children from a distance sounds extremely common and you can tell they just tune it out as white noise in the end.

fustybritches · 26/07/2015 16:10

I'm talking about, for e.g., if dc1 is scooting, dc2 falls over so I need to help dc2, and for dc1 to stop and wait.

Apologies for sounding 'common' and having a 'fat arse'

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Mrsjayy · 26/07/2015 16:15

Well i dont think that was what the op was talking about really it was the constantly shouting at kids to come here stop that over and over and the kid is clearly not listening stopping scooting running ahead is different.

Pilgit · 26/07/2015 16:50

My DH's normal speaking voice sounds like shouting to most people. He is just very loud. I agree that what you describe is annoying though just don't judge a loud voice....

Birdsgottafly · 26/07/2015 17:01

The Mothers in my area have perfected the art of walking as fast as they can, nearly to the end of the street and then slowing down whilst yelling at their children, to catch up, swearing is a must, apparently.

The same Mums, carry out shouting matches from opposite ends of the bus.

Its continual idle threats and abusive name calling.

I know its a case of them not knowing any better, but I do feel sorry for so many children that I see.

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