I know i'm probably BU, and I've seen on here before that people get annoyed when they invite people over with dc and they never return the offer and invite to their own house, but I'm just really worried.
My ndn asks me round for tea quite often, i'm a bit of an introvert but i usually accept, it's normally just with my baby in tow but today both our older dc are on hols so my 5yr old ds came along to play with her 4 yr old and 2 yr old. Her ds kept asking persistently about coming to mine and I felt really rude but i really get palpitations at the thought so kept pretending i dodn't hear or changing subject.
Reasons why are this boy is incredibly rambunctious, very boisterous, and really at that stage where everything is rough play. The last time he came round my house was left with toys flung in ever far corner, some broken. My DS has an array of carefully built lego models and i know these would be first to be smashed causing him great upset.
Another big reason is both her dc are very boisterous with my 3 month old, the boy especially charges him at speed and tries to get right against his face and is very rough. I have to use my body as a barrier or just lift the baby right up! Neither child listens to anybody.. so AIBU? I feel rude and I don't want to be a rude person.
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AIBU?
To never retun the favour and change suject when this child asks to come to my house.
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LegoComplex · 23/07/2015 18:25
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