AIBU to be this way? DH thinks I need to try harder....I do like people but it tends to be on my terms....I hate people just dropping in so I discourage it but DH thinks this is bad...he LOVES people dropping in and feels that his life isn't as social as it would be if I would allow people to pop in.
Our neighbour popped in this afternoon...while I was trying to sew some curtains on the machine. She had her toddler with her and ok...my DC played with the toddler but neighbour wanted to chat to me while I sewed.
She stayed for about an hour...when she'd gone I said to DH something like "I could have done without that." and he was very negative about my attitude...thing is, he doesn't know what it costs me to be friendly and cheerful....it costs me a lot...I have to be really concentrated in order to remain friendly and chatty etc...am i alone?
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AIBU?
Is anyone else on here massively anti-social?
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TheHouseOnBellSt · 19/07/2015 22:34
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