Sorry this could be long but I really need to rant.
Bil has quite a stressful job, away a lot. He has a partner but no children. He also owns quite a few rental properties. He is the busiest man on earth.
My DH is self employed the last few years have been a real struggle but things are turning a corner and the business is starting to do well.
I have 2 children and work for my DH part time from home.
Pil are very wealthy. Have given Bil £150k over the years for his various investment projects (one of which lost £80K).
When we were struggling nobody offered any help. Bil said to me that If DH couldn't make his business work then 'he should give it up & get a proper job'.
We do ALL the hosting for everything. Birthdays christmas etc. Bil & his partner are far too busy to host anything and pick & choose which events they attend.
However, they are very good with my children taking them out etc, but this is very much on their terms when they have time.
Really came to a head the other day when bil was prepared to let my elderly Mil do something because he was far too busy.
I think his way of thinking is cheesecake can do it as she is at home.
I ended up doing it. This happens a lot with either myself or my DH doing stuff because he just can't find the time.
He is very self centered and very much the golden child in my Pil eyes.
DH doesn't seem bothered and just says let him get on with it. With regards to the money he has been given we both view it that my Pil can do what they like with their money and we are not entitled in any way.
But I am getting so fed up with his attitude. Especially after the other day & just don't know how to handle him.
The only person who loves bil more than himself is his partner who treats him like a god.
Not sure if I need advice or just needed to rant. Sorry it's long!
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Cheesecake1980 · 18/07/2015 08:06
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