I had a breakdown about five years ago, and lost my job. I've received no NHS treatment in that time.
I have, however, been told I'm on waiting lists that turns out to be untrue, been given wildly varying opinions and promises - told I have good insight, poor insight, am a good/bad candidate for therapy, am too messed up for therapy (!), need only a brief therapy intervention, need long-term, indepth therapy. I've been randomly dragged to hospital on one occasion, under threat of section (suicide risk, despite definitely not being my illest and trying to explain that to them) then chucked out unceremoniously after three days and discharged entirely from the service.
I've been repeatedly re-referred by my GP; the CMHT bounce back four or five referrals before they take me on for a sham 'assessment' which inevitably decides there's nothing they can do - the service I need doesn't appear to exist anymore. They did once let me have an assessment with a therapist but she seemed very odd, eg. got me recalling deeply painful memories and when I was spacing out and just in a really painful place, there was no time to explore these memories just her saying I wasn't going to be seeing her again because I was unsuitable for therapy. She seemed basically nice but inept and completely not understanding.
I was discharged with a recommendation to my GP to never refer me again (he's tried, they sent it back) because I'll only be disappointed and feel let down by services.
As mentioned, I know certain budgets have been cut so the in-depth type therapy I need is like unicorn poo.
I claim ESA and PIP, using the latter to pay for private therapy. This is doing something but it is slow progress, and interestingly my involvement with MH services seems to have been catastropically unhelpful in terms of exacerbating everything and adding years to my recovery time.
I do stuff with my time as much as I am able. Gardening, crafts etc. Looking into Open University though it makes me feel like I'm a scrounger if I'm able to do that. I'm not just hanging around doing nothing. I'd have tried to get private treatment sooner if the NHS hadn't kept promising but not delivering. (*feel compelled to point out the physical side of the NHS has always been fine to me! Just MH is something else...) Although paying for therapy is reliant of me getting PIP, which is hard to get. What if I'm better enough not to qualify but still not able to hold down a job? (Job is hardest of daily things for me, due to inflexible nature of employment.)
I failed my first ESA assessment - nil points - and appealed and got 45 points and put in Support group. Since then they are trusting the word of my GP which feels like very shaky ground, or perhaps I am such a dangerous fruitcake they think it's safer to just let me have the benefits. Arghh.
I don't know, but I know the way the wind is blowing and I'm going to be in trouble within the next couple of years, I fear. My diagnosis is rather vague - anxiety/depression diagnosed by GP, others mutter "PD" and "complex case", but nothing official for the DWP.
I know I'm being unreasonable to think this govenment would give a shit, but AIBU in general, as a moral stance, to think that if they want to get an ill person back to work, they should provide treatment?
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elementofsurprise · 16/07/2015 12:18
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