Sorry had to name change as I have a friend on here who knows my usename.
Basically been seeing someone for a few weeks. First few dates were fine, no issues. Then on one date he literally just froze half way through saying something, froze his arm in mid air and everything and just stood like that for about two minutes before all of a sudden 'unfreezing' and carrying on like nothing had happened. Isolated incident on that date but I did freak me out, when i questioned him on it he made out that he had no idea what I was talking about. A few dates later, everything had been going fine and then on one date we bought some muffins and without warning he slammed his into his forehead. We were actually sat in Costa at the time. People were staring, I was mortified. Agsin he acted like nothing had happened yet he continued walking around town with mess all over his head. I told him we were not working out and I wished him well. He said he was upset, didn't know why I'd suddenly gone off him and wished there was a second chance. I gave him a second chance telling him any daft behaviour and it would be over. Went well for a few dates and then one night we were at his house, he said he was going to toilet but I saw him walk into the airing cupboard and shut the door. He stayed in there for ages so I gave him 20 mins then decided to leave. As I was leaving I opened the cupboard door to tell him and he was just stood there in the dark!!
I'm now frightened to meet anyone else and keep wondering if I've had a narrow escape from actually been hurt in some way, am I over reacting?? It's freaked me out so much. Only been 3 weeks since I last saw him but I feel so on edge and paranoid I don't really know what to think.
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To be put off internet dating because of one freak?
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WaynettaStock · 12/07/2015 20:41
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