MIL birthday coming up in August. Up until last 5 years or so DH and I bought a gift for her. Then SIL started to ask to go thirds on a present with her and her, husband, us and BIL/BILs girlfriend.
First few years was gifts about £60 so £20 per couple. Happy with this and always got wine as an extra something. Last 2 years the price has crept up to about £200 - spa days and posh hair straighteners. Always SILs ideas. Today she has text us asking if we want to go thirds - on a fucking £550 puppy.
BIL said no - he's split up with his GF so can't afford to go thirds and has had his hours reduced at work. So she's sent me a separate message ranting about how selfish BIL is and how MIL deserves a puppy (she is fab and does a lot for us, and has done so much for BIL last few years, long story but he probably wouldn't be alive if it wasn't for her).
Thing is AIBU to think it's ludicrous a spend £550 on a birthday present for a 58 year old? I've never heard her say she wants a puppy (SIL bit of a crazy dog lady and thinks everyone should have a dog). She's asked if we can stretch to pay half. We have joint savings, but that's for a holiday/impending house move - would IBU to tell her to piss right off politely decline too?
DH at work so not sure what he thinks yet
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PiperChapstick · 12/07/2015 17:16
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