My friend leads a nice lifestyle with her husband and two children, they have been discussing having a third child. With the thought of the 2015 budget in my head, I told her I would not personally have a third child because you never know what could happen in the future (separation etc)
Her husband is the high earner in the family. If they split, most likely she will end up on welfare. Even if she gets a job, she will need tax credits and obviously we all know they are going be cut and limited to two children. Is it wrong of me to think women who do not have careers should not have three children? due to the risk of being in poverty if the relationship fails or something happens to the husband career.
I know you cannot go through life thinking what if...however I feel women who rely on their partners income are at risk. Am I overthinking this?
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Aibu to advice my friend not to have a third child because she does not have a career?
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Rebecca2014 · 12/07/2015 13:15
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