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i am loathing the gradual creep of the term 'gotten' on here

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FrankietheSquealer · 09/07/2015 17:07

Please desist

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LongDistanceLove · 09/07/2015 17:09

Yeah its gotten out of hand hasn't it? Grin

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FunkyPeacock · 09/07/2015 17:10

I assume the culprits are American?

Surely no British person would

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FrankietheSquealer · 09/07/2015 17:10

its gorn MAD!

I hate it
You aren't all American. Snap out of it

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ShatnersBassoon · 09/07/2015 17:11

What about ill-gotten gains? It's a useful word. I don't care if British people want to start using it again.

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SenecaFalls · 09/07/2015 17:11

How do you feel about forgotten? Same root word.

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NewsreaderChic · 09/07/2015 17:12

Ha, I was just moaning to dd about how common it's become, she laughed at me when I said English people wouldn't have said it a few years ago.

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ScOffasDyke · 09/07/2015 17:13

I agree, OP. And "obligated" instead of "obliged"

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FrankietheSquealer · 09/07/2015 17:13

i know its probably old english etc
but its weird now

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badtime · 09/07/2015 17:14

'Gotten' is mainly used in American English, but that does not mean everyone using the word picked it up from the American usage - like many American words, it used to be more common in British English, but has just fallen out of use over the centuries.

I don't say gotten and don't like it, but it is a perfectly normal British dialect usage - I believe it is used in parts of Scotland, for example.

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Everythinghaschanged · 09/07/2015 17:14

Yes it's awful. It's everywhere!

I see it here in writing all the time. However I don't know anyone who would actually say it.

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FrankietheSquealer · 09/07/2015 17:15

i KNOW all that about the American stuff. And it comes from Olde worlde English
but its not MODERN English

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MaximumVolume · 09/07/2015 17:15

I use gotten. Because once I'd realised that it was the same as forgotten in terms of when it should be used it seemed really wrong not to use it! If my child said "I have forgot my bag" I'd correct him (nicely). Same with got/gotten. Nothing to do with America.

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Smoorikins · 09/07/2015 17:18

Nothing wrong with gotten as a term.

It's been in use all my lifetime.

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Jollyphonics · 09/07/2015 17:20

I hate gotten, really hate it. But OP I'm afraid I also dislike the way people say "I am liking" instead of "I like". I know it's grammatically correct but I still find it irritating, probably because I only noticed it after the MacDonalds slogan "I'm loving it".

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FrankietheSquealer · 09/07/2015 17:20

Can i get

ALSO UP THERE

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PolterGoose · 09/07/2015 17:23

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Everythinghaschanged · 09/07/2015 17:23

It's everything to do with America!

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ThoseAwfulCurtains · 09/07/2015 17:24

I'm not keen on gotten but it irritates me less than i for I.Smile

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Smoorikins · 09/07/2015 17:25

It is nothing to do with America. Tosh. I've been using the term since I was a child. How much American influence do you think I had close to 40 years ago?

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GinUpGirl · 09/07/2015 17:25

Language evolves! We consume so much American media it is hardly surprising that this one is slipping in. It will be in the dictionary soon enough.

Period of large technological advancement that shares media across the English speaking world = fused languages.

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ThoseAwfulCurtains · 09/07/2015 17:25

I dislike the "I'm good" response when someone is asked how they are. It's not even stealth boasting.

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WhetherOrNot · 09/07/2015 17:26

Team it up with "would of" and you will have "would of gotten"............double aaaaaaaaaaaaargh!

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bialystockandbloom · 09/07/2015 17:26

Dislike it too. Ditto "can I get" (grr).

It is not a shortening of 'forgotten'! Different meanings.

"I've forgotten my bag" = I didn't remember my bag
"I've gotten tickets for the theatre" = I've bought tickets for the theatre

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bialystockandbloom · 09/07/2015 17:27

Oh yes, "I'm good" even worse!

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Sallystyle · 09/07/2015 17:27

I like gotten.

I dislike advise for advice though. Can you give me some advise? No, I can advise you, or even give you some advice.

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