I am getting married next summer. I'm 32 and we've been together 10 years. We are having a service in my church, lunch in the pub next door until 3pm, and we have booked a local hall from 8pm onwards for drinks, nibbles and dancing. 90 of our 110 guests are within 15 mins of the church which is in a city centre, so we hope our plan is ok.
I'm already so nervous about the coming months - already having people ask me questions about the day makes me feel V self conscious eg. I didn't want an engagement ring which I've been asked frequently about (personally, I've always disliked the concept, but don't want to offend anyone by explaining this!), not wearing a traditional dress etc. I'm a private person and I'm not sure I will cope being the centre of attention.
I really really want to get married - how do I stop the nerves/drama creeping into my life for the next year? If you weren't really looking Forward to the reception bit, how did you manage those feelings?
I rationally know that no.one else is that bothered, but practical tips would be very welcome!
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Andbreathe2016 · 05/07/2015 17:17
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