I have namechanged for this in case DP realises this is about him and reads my other posts.
I might be being unreasonable so please tell me if I am and I'll cut him some slack.
DP has, IMO a nice and easy life. He doesn't work (I am the major breadwinner) and looks after DD 18mo for approx half the day. The other half of the day I look after her. Sometimes we do things together as a family.
So, he has plenty of spare time. He occasionally loads the dishwasher and does the grocery shopping but not much else. In fact I need to get a cleaner.
I on the other hand work every spare minute I have (run my own business), look after DD 50% of the time (at least), do all house related admin, every single night waking and always have done and up until very recently have been BF a lot. Oh and I'm 6 months pregnant so feel knackered at the best of times but just get on with it.
I don't mind doing so much and him having an easier life in comparison, what grates on me is that he always walks around sighing, saying how tired he is, how much he needs a break etc etc. He was the one who wanted to give up work to look after DD part time so that we didn't have to send her to nursery quite yet.
I'm concerned as with another DC due in a few short months, life is never going to be this easy again. God forbid he may actually have to go out to work one day as well!
AIBU to want him to man the hell up?
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To wish he'd just stop moaning.
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pleasestopmoaning · 28/06/2015 21:07
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