Reposting from chat as I had very little in terms of replies and I'm wondering what to do.
I have name changed as I think dh may know my username. I'm also posting here instead of relationships as I want this to disappear. Please be gentle.
We have 2 ds s and I am a sahm. Youngest is a baby. I have a hard time with older ds due to various issues.
His friend has been living with us for 2 months now. It was originally meant to be short term (weeks) but is looking likely to be for a few more months.
He is paying nominal rent, so has little incentive to look for somewhere else.
My issue is that dh is spending very little time with me, and often putting me down in front of his friend, including saying rather inappropriate things.
It has become a real issue between us now. His friend is fine, aside from some minor annoyance which is par for the course when someone is living with you. The issue is how dh is treating me as a result of him living here. I hardly have any adult contact, and would like to spend time with dh just the two of us, rather than him ignoring me to spend time with his friend every night.
We has a big argument about this last night.
I'm just wondering what to do now. If I ask the friend to move out I will be the 'bad guy', but at the same time I am really unhappy with the situation.
Wibu to insist friend moved out?
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To have had enough?
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pitterpattar · 28/06/2015 00:07
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Preciousbane ·
28/06/2015 00:27
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